Hey tecomsin,
Just catching up on your thread.. Great Job staying with your MJ free life. I'm about 6 months free now. I had a bid urge over the weekend but pushed through it. That was the first one is a long time for me. My depression and anxiety is better WITHOUT MJ, not great but weed doesn't help. Exercise helps the most, even more than meds. So if you can get even a short walk in you'll feel better. I'm 52 and smoked weed for 20+ years off and on. The past several years I was a Morning smoker and it gave me motivation. The year I was not smoking and the past 6 months I struggle with motivation. The urges went away for me after 30 days or so and I started sleeping better around that time.

In regards to your 24yo son.... can he get a part time job so he's doing something? That may help both of you.