I don't know who's post you're referring to but I have said I believe if a person has been sexually abused they just know, there's just a knowing,the soul knows, or something like that.

I personally don't think it's wise for anyone to read a list of symptoms and jump to conclusions theyve been sexually abused. To me that's no different than self diagnosing a mental illness because some of the symptoms fit. They could be way off on what they believe is wrong with them since so many symptoms can be similar for each illness. The same goes for SA symptoms, someone could presume that's what it has to be when in fact they just had a UTI in childhood or a hundred different scenarios.