I am sorry you are having hard time.

Could it be that your friend wants you to try something different? Maybe it’s ok to go do something that you normally wouldn’t do? I get it that it’s not your thing but “hate” is a strong feeling about something kind of trivial. You could do it just for laughs?

At the same time could it be that these people just don’t have things in common with you? I am not saying you must share all interests but some? In general people gravitate to those who share some things in common? Like if you have totally different tastes and interests than your friends, it seems to be hard to maintain friendship.

There is a poster on here who likes to listen to life bands “golden eve”, she lives no where near you but she might have pointers how she met like minded people?