I'm in a bit of a complicated LDR and I'm just not knowing what to do...
I live in Colorado and my S.O. lives in Texas. We met online through a mutual friend back in 2014 on Facebook. We connected instantly and have been talking ever since. We haven't met in person yet but feel that we are soulmates and plan to get married. He currently is on probation (for a situation I'm not gonna say) for about 2 more years and then he's looking forward to moving here closer to me.

I currently am having a very difficult time getting my own life on track. I've been looking for a job with no success. I need to get out and get a place of my own. I can't drive (I only have a learner's permit) and my home situation is a mess. Living with my dad and stepmom is fine but the fact that her mom (with advanced Alzheimer's and in home hospice care) lives with us as well is very stressful for everyone. Our situation is basically tearing each other apart, and I don't know how to deal with it all when I need to get a life of my own so that when my S.O. moves here we'll both be prepared for a life together without family issues holding us back.