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Originally Posted by starrysky
Because the thing is, I'm doing really well on my own. I just think a residential program...this program, is not a good fit for me. I can't live on my own without being in this program though.
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I wondered about that. You've mentioned some jobs, a friend you at least exercise with, and your parents. Is it possible you have enough of a support network to be on your own outside of this program?
You've talked about fitting the place out, and maintaining it. I know you get out and engage in activities as well as shopping for needed things. If there are still things you need help with, maybe your parents or others could help with those in your own place rather than doing so back at their home.
I don't know of course; I'm just tossing this out there. Maybe it's not feasible, but maybe you're not limited to just the two options. I just hope you're not selling your self short.
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Originally Posted by starrysky
And my relationship with my family, has gotten better, by me moving out. Being on my own, and being away from my alcoholic dad...I've liked it a lot. My relationship got better w/ him too when I moved out.
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I think the independence really helps. Is it possible to have a standing arrangement with your parents to crash at their place on a really bad night, rather than permanently moving back in? You know -- a safety net, rather than full support. Your counselor might have some ideas on that front.
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