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Originally Posted by atisketatasket
No—info and I spent like 15 minutes on this once. She wanted me to ask her to close the shades because the sun was in my eyes, but I didn’t see why I couldn’t just lean back and deal with it myself.
Apparently I failed some kind of relationship test.  |
We didn't spend any time talking about it (thank goodness!), but I was dealing just fine leaning out of the sun when my t got up and closed the shades and told me it was okay to ask for her to do that.
Except I was handling it fine, and if it had bothered me I'd likely have asked her if she minded if I got up and closed them myself.
Then I spent the next 20 minutes wondering, much like what you wrote, if I'd failed some kind of test, self-advocacy or something. Really I was just too absorbed in the conversation to worry about what the sun was doing.