My new-ish therapist has a very cold office; the office suite is divided into what are essentially doctors' offices. I told her she should fill up her big bookcase with books. I think that would help a lot. (I told her more casually than that). She said as soon as she brings a book into the office then she finds she needs it at home. And I thought Wow! you must not have very many books. I could fill up many many times her shelf and still keep what I needed at home. It kind of sucks.