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Originally Posted by shezbut
UNBELIEVABLE that I was with this guy!!! I have ended the relationship, but I am now kicking myself so hard (I know, I absolutely deserve every little bit of pain). Triggered is an understatement. I don't know what to say or do. I've pulled away from co-workers and acquaintances that are concerned about me. I don't deserve their kindness. I don't know what to do.
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This is NOT your fault. I'm going to say it again. This is NOT your fault. How on earth could you have known? Abusers look just like everyone else. And ending the relationship was really strong and brave. It would be so easy to just kind of go along with his lies just to have the feeling of being cared for. I am impressed that you did that.
Seriously, I am impressed with you. I hope you can stop blaming yourself for this, because this was all him.