We've hugged 6 times (in 2.5 years). I remember the dates
He always initiates.
I wish we hugged more often... But not too often. I also wish our hug were a little bit longer and/or tighter.
I don't think I'll ever manage to ask for a hug myself so I'm going just wait. I'm going on vacation soon and it will be a month break from therapy... So... I'll have a small chance for a hug. I don't think he'll miss me or anything, but there is always a hope