Thread: Hugs
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Old Mar 30, 2018, 06:13 AM
winterblues17 winterblues17 is offline
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No we don't hug, and it's not something I can see happening. I'm not a huggy person at all generally, but sometimes I will sit in the session and have this urge to just want a hug from her, I link this with the feelings of vulnerability. Like if I've said something I feel a little bad for, or if I'm being self loathing I kinda just want her to give me the reassurance with some form of touch, she says all the words I want to hear, and they do help, but sometimes I just feel I want that little bit extra.
Because I'm not a touchy person, sometimes I feel really concerned to having these thoughts around it/her, but then we have discussed how wants and needs are perfectly fine, so I'm just trying to hold onto that.
Thanks for this!
DP_2017