hi,

i was just wondering if anyone had a teen who is anxious whenever meeting their dad. A parent that the teen perceives as wanting them to be perfect I am having issues re my teen's visiting his dad (btw, someone felt that dad has BPD). The fears come from not 'meeting the standards expected by dad ...' They worry about conversations where the shortcomings might come up & then what?!!! 'The visits always take place but apparently it is stressful ...

How do I reassure my child? what should I say to get them to stay calm, less fearful/anxious & not worry for the duration of the time away?

Any suggestions re reassurance? (until more can be done!) Thanks for any help