My T told me he would help me work up to accepting hugs because I have a really hard time with physical contact when I'm upset, to the point where even a casual touch can be unbearable. He promised me that he would help me cry and be held and comforted while crying to show me that it was safe and that me wanting that wasn't disgusting or dirty or bad.

Never delivered on that promise though...promised he would many times but...just didn't act when the opportunity presented itself...and then had a logical excuse afterwards that made me feel worse anyway...