Try your hardest not to focus on your two aunts. It sounds like the aunt who accuses you of being a bad parent can't be bothered to understand mental illness or child raising in general, so don't let her ignorance get to you. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, and that's just one person's opinion. I'm sure there are plenty of other people who have different opinions.

If your husband doesn't want your daughter labeled, then have you asked him why?

Some of my family members always comment on my weight and what I'm eating, so I know that awful feeling. (I've never had an eating disorder, but I have GI issues and I'm underweight as a result.)

I hope your easter is okay, and if not, that it passes by quickly.