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nicole84 said:
Was told last night by my boyfriend that he now hates me... all because I get frustrated and 'snappy'

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<font color="purple"> ((( HUGS ))) - </font> I am sorry this is happening to you - and while I know your bf is probably a little frustrated with you right now I still have to wonder WHO is that he is really upset with, from his past? - what has been resonated in him from the past (due to your actions) that is now disrupting his present.

...... it is my opinion that we often over react to the present when and if our wounded past is resonated.