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nicole84 said:
That is very true... he did have an ex gf that was a pretty bad relationship... and he didn't really date anyone for a long time after that.

I just hate feeling like i'm such an awful person I know I have hard times but I'm never directly horrible...

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IMO - his resonation probably goes further back than his last gf - I would look more into his care givers as a child...... for our past wounds have a way of effecting us even if we do not remember them.

((( HUGS ))) - and hang in there for I am sure you are not a bad person, just misunderstood from your side of the fence.