(((((Tishie)))))) Of course it wasn't easy, the right thing rarely is. Just remember that could have been your child and you would want to know.
When a minor is involved their safety is more important than their feelings. When someone is grooming a child/teen for abuse the victim usually feels closer to the abuser than their own parent.
Being a victim of abuse when I was a child, too much concern was placed on the reputation of the man that molested me than my own safety. I don't care what career an abuser has (and I know Tishie that this was not a case of a teacher, priest, coach, etc) but even if it was, CHILDREN MUST BE PROTECTED!!!!!
You handled this situation perfectly. You brought it to the parents. They can determine the merits of the situation and take any actions necessary. As a mother, and former victim I thank you very much!
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I've been married for 24 years and have four wonderful children.
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