Hello (((JUSY A PIXIE))). I am not sure if you can understand this or not. But since women are seen as the stronger sex (having children and then surviving even through the toughest circumstances), one of the things men challenge themselves with is their sentiment to themselves in pleasing women sexually. (Erections sexual performance, and so forth). For men this is how they see themselves and measure up so to speak, (self esteem wise, and also in society as great achievers) since women are usually seen as the holding force of the family, men are dictated by systematical gratification of participation in how they perform in the bedroom and mascually (sexually) as males. (This is not the case in all circumstances though Pixie) This is just the usual and most common situation when people are not emotionally stable, or that have low self worth or esteem. This is definitely someone that I would suggest you stay away from if you can, since a lot of these people are co dependent and cant have a life that is successful without sending someone else down the tubes for their own gain, and self worth. Always be suspicious if all someone has to be concerned about is sex (either too much or too little and measuring their self worth sexual manifestations). Take care Pixie. PM anytime. Soidhonia