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i used to also think that any disruption in any relationship meant...the end. t has also shown me that i've had MANY differences with many ppls and have stated them and those ppl are right there...still

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I really like this! I've learned the same thing in therapy. I was never able to express my emotions...certainly never learned to express disagreement. My T helped me learned how to disagree, and even argue, and to realize that it's not the end of world...or of the friendship.

It's fine for feathers to get ruffled here. It happens all the time. We inhale/exhale, and try to make nice. It usually works out fine. We have the wonderous experience of learning something about each other. That's a blessing. "Looky - that person showed me a little piece of herself". Good or bad, there it is. A real person. Realness - how refreshingly human!!

Hugs all 'round!

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