I disagree that depression itself is a sign of strength, it's a mental illness that sucks to have. Seeking treatment and taking steps to get better however, are signs of strength.

I am unsure how old you are, but if you are an adult then your family cannot hold you hostage and prevent you from taking steps to get better.

Having people to support us is important for sure, a support system can be extremely helpful. -However-, if the people you live with are actively working against you, it is time to move on from these people.

I know before you have mentioned that minimum wage jobs feel "below" you. But wouldn't it be worth it to take such a job if it meant living independently, away from people who don't want to see you get better?

What is keeping you stuck? What steps can you take to get unstuck?