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Originally Posted by Vibrating Obsidian
But this is exactly the thing - the therapist would want me to take the "commitment to therapy", and "be responsible", while he could not take any responsibility for his own actions. How would you expect one to take responsibility when their teachers can't take their own?
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Find a new teacher? Or choose to take responsibility for yourself only and focus on that?
Refusing to move forward because of someone wronging you is like setting your own house on fire to make someone feel bad. Your therapist will continue to live his life, and act how he does, regardless of how your life goes. Frankly, the only one you are punishing here is yourself.
If you choose to stay stuck at this point in your life, it will be on you. Not your therapist, not your parents. Yes, they may have played a part in how your perspective is now. But the only one responsible for our own lives as adults is ultimately us.
Whether you choose to accept that now, later, or never, is up to you. I wish you the best.