EV, I agree with Silver. I also have another reply that I wrote on another thread I would like to share with you... let me find it./..

Actually I found it and it was a reply to your thread when your friend saw the scars!!! So you would have already seen it! Oops!

My personal opinion is that cutting is about as personal as it gets and should NEVER be shared if you don't feel good about it. But if you do have the desire to have your friend understand, sometimes it is worth the risk.