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Originally Posted by Lilana
I assume my T does. He never specifically said so though, which is something I'm glad about. I'm not sure I wanted to know why specifically he acts the way he does - it would make me want to "protect him" from the reasons he had to reflect in the first place, if that makes sense?
Mona, this is only my opinion and please feel free to ignore it, as you haven't asked for it... If your T keeps pushing too hard even though she's aware of it, maybe she's not really reflecting as much as she should? After all you're supposed to learn from your mistakes and actually change something...
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Thank you for your opinion, I appreciate it. I really think my t does reflect on it but is more interested in why she does it and not the impact on me as her client. I think she should reflect more on that.
This has been an ongoing issue for me in our relationship, that t pushes me too hard and doesn’t give up. She pushes me so hard sometimes that it really does impact my emotional health. I told her not to use the choice word and to try and guilt me into feeling like I have choose a lot of my lives problems and I wish she would reflect on that.