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Originally Posted by ElectricManatee
I don't know that I've ever canceled, but I have had to reschedule on very short notice because of medical things. It was an ongoing thing that I had talked about with my T, so it made sense to briefly tell her what I was doing, especially since the incredibly short notice would have been pretty uncool without explaining.
Art, based on your Dear T post, it sounds like you feel like you need to justify canceling to your T, which I think is a different matter entirely. She just shouldn't be able to claim that kind of power over you. Your budget, your schedule, your decisions. Her comment about taking credit cards (implying you should spend money you don't have) strikes me as a bit gross. This seems like a perfect situation to practice setting a firm boundary and sticking to it. Go back when you can afford it, if you want to. Don't apologize for making responsible financial choices.
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Thank you. That's the word my brain wasn't finding - "justify". That's exactly what I feel like I have to do. I really like how you explained that! And you're so right it is a perfect situation to practice setting a firm boundary and sticking to it. I have tried that with her in the past and have not been able to stick to it. I think I just felt my backbone grow a little stronger. Thank you thank you. And I won't apologize when I tell her. I can do this.