Hi Sunny,

I feel all of these things for T, and then some. I also don't think that the relationship is an either/or situation.

I think some of what you describe actually is transference. It is through the transference that we are able to work through things. It's natural, and well, therapeutic.

I also don't think it's necessary for erotic transference to be sexual. in fact, it encompasses feelings of love such as those you describe.