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Old Apr 02, 2018, 08:15 AM
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Originally Posted by Happy Hotaru View Post
Something seriously triggered me today and when I tried talking to my boyfriend about it, he just doesn't get it. He doesn't comfort me in the way I need to be comforted, in fact, he just makes me feel worse about myself. His approach is not very good, it feels like he criticises me. He doesn't have an anxiety disorder, so it's really hard to have him relate to what I feel. He just gets angry when he tries to comfort me and nothing helps. I really don't know what he can do to help me. The whole thing is just so extremely frustrating .
I’m learning that you have to be patient with people, especially people you want long term.

You don’t know what they’re dealing with, and you can’t know for sure how they’re feeling at any moment.

They’ll say they trust you and you can talk to them anytime but trust me, I thought I had a girl like that but made things so bad that she no longer wants anything to do with me, at least for now

It’s very difficult, I’m suffering now because I wasn’t patient enough. People are very complex, they’ll change, they’ll forget things, or how they feel about you.

Find the right time to talk to your bf, or maybe just ask to set aside some time

I want to give you real advice because I was just like you are, last week, I pushed too much, now I no longer have them.
Thanks for this!
Wild Coyote