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Old Apr 02, 2018, 10:36 AM
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The thing to remember is to rest when you need to, but don't give up on life. Bumps in the road happen. It's normal to feel burdened by the stress. Situations always change. Jobs come and go.

It sounds like your supervisors are having a power trip combined with "misery loves company." I know it is difficult, but remember that YOU are not the problem. Keep your head down, do your job, and file complaints with your HR department. It falls under sexual harassment, specifically, making a hostile work environment.

No one can make you happy, but yourself. That applies to your fiancé. You can be there for someone to lean on, but only he or she can make changes for the better. Be their support and sounding board, but YOU are not responsible for the stress they are experiencing. If you have financial concerns, maybe search the internet for "free" activities in the area. Groupon is, also, very good for finding major discounts for local venues and "semi-local" getaways. ...Just an option.

If all else fails, you can volunteer. Helping people/animals who are less fortunate always seems to put your own life into perspective. (It feels good to be needed. Usually, the only thing that helps me get out of my funk is to be of service to others.)

Hope you can find some stress relief soon. **Hugs**
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Thanks for this!
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