Clair, how long is your session supposed to be? Sounds like she's summing up the session and making sure you both are on the same page, not trying to get you out of there! I wish my T had summed up things more often. I saw her for a back-to-back session of 100 minutes and if you're discussing things that long it's easy to forget what went on sometimes.

Your T can and probably would say if she didn't think you were progressing, she'd say she didn't think she could help you anymore, she wouldn't be obnoxious. I don't think you are getting on her nerves, she may not know where you "are" and how much you are aware of and is trying to check with you. I would ask her about your impressions, that is what therapy is for, to make sure we don't keep making old mistakes in present day relationships. Tell her you feel rushed and like she's ending the session early and see what she says.