I has just realised that my ex wife has been mentally abusing me and our two kids for years. We were dysfunctional for a long time. My kids, now adults, won't speak to me, or each other but regard their mother as the only one they can trust. It's taken me half my life to realise that this wasn't my fault. I can't prove anything, no crime has been committed. But she has caused me a lot of emotional pain. At the very least, I'd like my kids to talk to me again. My question is this: What if anything can I do to achieve that goal? Thanks