He know he has problems, remember we attempted t together, went two times, my t told me she didn't want to waist her time on us. She recommended individual t for him, and for me to continue coming on my own. I did for a while and am currently taking a break (I'm OK), but he never did!!!

I just feel bad about not being opposed to his drinking, and actually hoping for it (it keeps him away for us).

I sometimes hope for it because he'll die younger than me if he keeps it up too, now that IS awfull, but so be it, it is nothing but the true.