I don't think anyone can fix someone else. For me, I hate a formal in person group.
The T always wants to mix in several totally neurotic folks who want to dominate the talk about totally redundant stuff, and (I guess...) he hopes that makes the rest of us so crazy that we feel miraculously healed so we don't have to come back. I like the discussions here though, and if it's for someone else, I'm behind it. just not for myself...