Thank you everyone for the kind words and advice. I truly appreciate it.

I have tried several routes over my time here, I've kept my head down, I do my job, I don't participate in the gossipy talks, I avoid negative situations as much as possible but in the end I had to go to HR on both times of these things happening. I have tried to just let things slide and have a positive attitude about it but it's just too much at this point.

I know some people have jobs they wake up and it doesn't cosume them with stress to go back to every single day for years, I just want to find a job like that. I've put in a large amount of "above and beyond" work here and when we got a new manager, I was put back down to basically him acting as if I was new. I'm not a person to quit a job (why I'm still here after everything that has happened) until I have another job and it's a sure thing. So I'm hanging in there.

However no, it was not sexual harrassment, I'm not sure what the confusion was with that one?