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Originally Posted by SummerTime12
Thank you both! He definitely noticed, I told him I was dizzy first and we went to get water from the water fountain. When we came back I started getting super anxious and told him I though I was gonna have a panic attack. He kept trying to talk me through it but I just sat there frozen, unable to talk or move, looking like an idiot. He asked me a couple questions during and I just couldn’t answer. I feel like he must think I’m crazy and be so fed up with working with me. I’m sorry you’ve been in this situation too, LT, it’s definitely not fun. He said he wished he could’ve been more helpful for me.
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What do you think would have helped you at the time? If you have some sense, maybe let him know in case it happens again. I don't know if this is an option for you (not sure if it is with current T), but a couple times when I was panicking in my marriage counselor's office, I wanted to go hide in the bathroom for a bit, but he suggested the three of us walk outside. I'm not sure if it was the movement, the fresh air, or not sitting in a room staring at each other (maybe all three), but it helped me deal with the panic. Ex-T did relaxation exercises with me a couple times, but those were kinda long and took up 15-20 minutes of session, so I never really wanted to do them. I also stepped out to the bathroom for 5 minutes once and splashed some cold water on my face (I've read that can stimulate the vagus nerve and calm you down). Helped a bit. My instinct when panicking is to want to run and hide, so I tried to fight against that in future sessions.
With current T, leaving the room for a couple minutes helped one time. The other time I had a panic attack during session with him, I think just his commenting on the fact that I was shaking and asking if I was really that scared about what would happen in the room that day helped. Because then I didn't feel I had to hide it (which I often feel I do, which tends to just make it worse...). And it was like he understood how scared I was. The other day, I wasn't having a panic attack, but he showed me some breathing exercises to do for future ones. So maybe if I'm panicking again in there, I could ask him to talk me through those again. Just some thoughts!