For us, we are gender binary just means all races etc.. To the African americans when causcian are around it is just a little more proper. When the caucasian are around it usually a mix of both races. When the asian indian african etc islanders are here you get a little of everything, rarely. It just depends on if this is disclosure you don't want to create a non credible disclosure if it isn't needed. If with someone a male companion it just depends on how in depth certainly don't want to make it habit to share to intimately like in long term therapy without a certain amount of time to past. I go for well rounded people if I can so that if it does happen then it won't be a big deal. Of course, race in general can be a topic that is uncomfortable I stay out of it as best I can until I need to what is happening in my system. For instance finding alter that is neigbor from several years ago for the purpose of a journey. Yea, I am comfortable enough basically wanted to say