hehehe sorry ... was just wondering which of the choice retorts you could have made back at him? I know it's a marriage though..and big purchases should be agreed to... (if computers are pricey now anyway) but it he never buys anything, or buys what he wants without consulting you...yeah, I hear ya!

Do you not have chores that get done because they need to be, and you've agreed who will generally do what? Does he see things needing to be done and do them, or is that why you asked him to do something?

I suppose you had to do many chores in your family growing up, since you feel like a daughter rather than a wife?

I guess there's truth to can't live with "them" and can't live without "them" ... with the "them" being changeable?