I have something similar in that I can be hypersexual which unfortunately
is followed by a period of self consciousness. As a guy this can be
explained easily enough. My body needs time to recover after
a lot of activity. However, you seem not to be comfortable with
your situation. I had my hormones checked recently and specifically
my adrenals. I'm not talking about testosterone and the usual
suspects. I'm talking about epinephrine, cortisol, seritonin.
They were all very low. I was trying to jump start my system using
sex when all I succeeded in doing was making things worse.
Caffeine, alcohol do the same. One pumps you up the other
makes you happy but, in the end, is a depressant. Even in
moderate amounts one feeds off the other. Hyper sex
leads to shyness and back again. You can say...well there's
nothing strange about it and that would be true. You can
say "well thats the way I am" and go with it. You can
also ask is this what I want?