I am a very sexual person, an addict my previous therapist told me. I was the type of person who didn't have to have an emotional connection, hell I didn't even have to know their name. It didn't matter as long as I had an orgasm. I went from having sex pretty much every day of the week to not having sex at all. Up until 3 months ago I had a pretty active sex life, a few steady friends with benefits for the last year then about 3 months ago something happened and I woke up excited that my friend was coming over that day but afterwards when he left I had a massive emotional breakdown. I felt dirty, emotionally empty, and could not have an orgasm. I felt in light of this to take a break from sex and figure out what's going on. I have lost complete interest in sex. Since it has been 3 months I figured this past week to invite my friend over and have some fun. Needless to say I was more annoyed than anything. Sex just feels empty and meaningless. I can't have an orgasm, it doesn't seem like anything he did felt right or good. I don't understand what is going on with me. I don't know if this is a normal thing that comes with age or if I'm wanting more. I just feel defective. I'm so frustrated I don't know what to do.