After years of you suggesting that my family get together and do something like watch t.v., and years of being successful for a short while only to stop, H's T gave him homework: set a permanent day each week that we get together to eat dinner. H brought this up with me today. H said that he always wanted to do this but didn't think it was what we wanted to do, but it definitely is. And I got the feeling at times that he didn't want me there and it might have or might not have been true. H also said that he wants to watch t.v. on that day so we'll pick something we all like.

I think this has clicked with H and we both now know that we both are interested in this, and this includes D. This is progress and it seems like this time we will continue doing this. It just feels different than it usually has, in a good way. At least I am hopeful. Today was a really good day all around.