This sounds like words shared in the heat of the moment... with each of you.

Is it possible to have another talk when things are not so heated?

I am guessing your wife's reaction is based upon her concern for you (her frustration with the doctor, that is). It's very frustrating to feel like a spouse's pdoc is not listening. ( I've been there.)

I am hoping you can talk with one another and heal the wound(s).
It's worth a try. Speak from your heart when talking with her.


WC