Oblivion, I can't imagine a tdoc telling you something like that to be honest. A little off the wall to me. And I certainly can't imagine my tdoc, or any of my tdocs or pdocs in the past telling me something like that. Not very professional at all to put it mildly.

Did you ask her what she meant by that when she brought it up? You had every right to do so.

Maybe you need an opinion from another tdoc/therapist, maybe the type I've already mentioned to you. Find one who will be a good fit for you.

I'm new here, and I don't know how the board feels about posting links on the board, but I can send you a message that would help you find the type of tdoc I told you about in your area....if you would like.