I know a ton about my T, he's never refused to answer anything I ask and he offers out alot of info I don't ask. I love it because it provides a huge comfort factor for me but it also feels very friend like, which can be mentally confusing at times.... but if he stopped doing this sort of stuff this far into things, I'd take it as rejection and not handle it well...

As for the kissing aspect, I'd hate it, but mostly because I can't stand PDA anyway. From anyone. Makes me very uncomfortable