I like to know some personal things about t. Whatever personal things she discloses are minimal, relevant to my therapy, and not excessive nor inappropriate. I appreciate getting a glimpse into her personal world just a little in order to know that she's not a robotic blank slate t but that is it.

Ex-t shared way too much personal information with me, even prior to us becoming friends. At the time, I thought it was great because it made me feel so special. Turns out it was extremely damaging.

I did see ex-t kiss and hug her husband a few times but not at the office so I didn't find it offensive at all. If it had happened at the office, I would have been horrified.