Ive been on both sides of the equation, as a patient, and as a relative.

I would say, ts are human, and so are their significant others. If a t doesnt treat his so's as human, i dont think you want him as a t, cuz what can he teach you about being human?! Yes im bitter, sorry does it show?

You "broke the frame" by returning to the office after your session was over - its like walking into someones bedroom without knocking, who knows what youll find. Thats why its important to stick to session times, etc. If it were a medical dr or a lawyer or whatever, when your time is up, its up. Heck, even the cashier at walmart - you would have to get back in line, because they are starting on another customer. No?