Since I disclose so much, I just can't deal with a blank slate T and it drives me crazy. I want a T who discloses a little bit when it's relevant. My new T seems to want to spend the first 5 minutes chatting and I'm not sure if I like it or not She doesn't seem to mind telling me about her life. Knowing things about her does not upset me at all. I really wouldn't care if she kissed her husband on a rare occasion.