Add me to your lists of this happening to people here. I couldn't answer a question if my life depended on it sometimes. I need to read info first, then i can figure out something to say back, but it wouldn't be polished. I had a friend that was very verbal and for some reason{she was in my religion class in high school}, she always said what I was thinking. exact words too. There, I didn't have to worry because she would always take the floor first before i would be able to ramble some words off. She recently passed away, i havn't seen her in years and i found myself alone a bit without her input. I notice sometimes when Im on the go out with people i tend to listen to people first, without talking, then I'll try to add some type of story and i'll get all flaergasted and have to stop in the middle of the story, im not a story teller but found out that some people like my one liners i forced myself to do, and i think they are funny and alot of people call me the comedian.