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Originally Posted by Olive303
If we end up together we would definitely have dogs and lots of plants!
Not having kids was a CHOICE for you so maybe that is why it can be fulfilling. Do you ever regret it? or wish you had kids?
I am wondering if it is something that I am doing FOR someone else- to stay with my boyfriend- if it will feel as fulfilling?
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Personally, I don't regret not having kids, I found having pets around helps me much better than having kids around
My personal feelings though is I can't deal with kids anyways, if I spend longer than a couple of hours round them it sends my anxiety into a severe tailspin and I need to physically remove myself from where the kids are in order to calm down
What you need to do is decide for yourself which is more important: staying with someone who doesn't want kids or having kids? Have you explained to your boyfriend how important it is for you to have kids?