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Originally Posted by FallDuskTrain
I agree and it is about perception as well. People say that they are abused and I believe them but when I observe their relationships, I see that the person who claims to be abused is creating the abuser’s behavior in the first place. Or the person is not abused at all but just playing the victim. It is always easy to play the victim and say that I was abused in relationships. Also, it is also entirely my fault if I decide to stay in a relationship after the very first sign of abuse. If I do, I sure have no right to complain because I am choosing to stay in an abusive relationship.
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Are you implying that I was playing the victim when I say I was abused by my ex? I hope not. I WAS ABUSED verbally, psychologically and mentally. This thread is about saying good riddance to toxic relationships. It is not about getting out of one, being in one or staying in one. It is about not being in one any longer.
Also, someone who is abused DOES NOT CREATE THE ABUSE! What are you saying here???? They ARE a victim. Your post is really off based, and incenses me to no end, being someone who has been abused in several relationships. Please rethink what you have written.