Are you implying that I was playing the victim when I say I was abused by my ex? I hope not. I WAS ABUSED verbally, psychologically and mentally. This thread is about saying good riddance to toxic relationships. It is not about getting out of one, being in one or staying in one. It is about not being in one any longer.

Someone who is abused DOES NOT CREATE THE ABUSE! What are you saying here???? They ARE a victim. Your post is really off based, and incenses me to no end, being someone who has been abused in several relationships. Please rethink what you have written.