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Originally Posted by divine1966
I wouldn’t give up wanting to have kids. Having kids means more to me than having a man. I could always find another man.
And if a man wanted kids and I didn’t, I would not expect him to give that up to be with me.
There are ton of nice people out there who would be a better match. Life is too short to stay with people who don’t share the same dream. If you are still in age when you can have your own kids or adopt, I recommend you consider that a priority, if having children is important to you. Don’t give that up for having a boyfriend.
And I am sorry, don’t want to offend anyone, and I appreciate pets. But it’s not the same as having children
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I could see that but I am someone who has a extremely difficult time connecting with people, especially romantically. I don't see it as "I can just find another" because I want THIS man. I want to spend my life with HIM specifically. So whichever way I chose it will be a great loss. It's hard weighing a actual situation against a hypothetical- not everyone loves being a mom- I may not.