I think current T has learned from me. He's mentioned not having past clients really be attached to him (well...that he knew of!), so I think I'm helping him learn about clients who attach to their T's. He's been confused by my reaction to things at times (like why I reacted so strongly to his going out of town), but then seems receptive to my explanations and feedback. And it seems he's adapted a bit in how he approaches and responds to me. So I think he's become a better T in that now he knows how to deal with clients who are more like me. And I wonder, too, if he might be better able to detect if a client feels attached to him, even if they don't tell him...