She said she’s started doing x thing differently across her clients based on what I’d told her (and basically she said she now reads clients much more closely thanks to what I’ve told her).

I didn’t ask her about it — she said it on her own.

Some other stuff though — I’m not so sure. She has changed how she approaches certain topics with me but I don’t get the sense that’s a real change because all of a sudden, I’ll get a sharp glimpse of her old attitudes which bothered me (and which she’ll quickly cover up but still).

So that’s an example of something wheee it looks like she’s changed but I really doubt it and then I kinda feel bad that she’s forced to cover stuff up to deal with me (in my defense, I haven’t told her directly it bothers me but she’s commented on how “defensive” I am about those things).